Are you tired of the game imposing heterosexual relationships on your character? I have what you need. Just move the save files from the archive to My Documents \ My Games \ Fallout4 and enjoy the new game with your beloved and your adopted / surrogate son.
Fallout 4: Save Game (Save Game with same-sex marriage for GG) Free Download
To edit the appearance of your hero, open the console and enter the code showlooksmenu player to edit the appearance of your spouse – showlooksmenu character ID.